Do I do everything I can to make my league mates feel comfortable on game dates?
One thing I've found out is that people are not like animals. This is a perfect example. A good tummy rub will make any dog or cat feel comfortable, but try it on another coach and they get
very uncomfortable!
Do I make a concious decision to treat my league mates or simply a game of fun(scrim or whatever) with mutual respect?
Oh heck no. The best decisions I seem to make are when I'm
unconscious. And I don't even remember most of them. LIke the one I made the other day to let my wife buy that dress she always wanted. She had to remind me of it because I couldn't recall telling her it was ok.
Lastly, when I clearly have an advantage and a lead an opponent is it important to "pile on more points and why?" ex 48-3 Or do I take my lead and use it as a teachable moment to uplift the spirit and the strategy of my opponent by sharing EF theory with them?
If (and that's the main word here) I ever get a lead, I find it best to come up with an excuse to leave. That way the other guy will be more willing to want to play again and finish the game. Quit when they're ahead and they never come back. Trust me.
As a coach that may have been under 3-48 what would benefit you or keep you coming back with a smile under those circumstances?
I wouldn't know the answer to that question. I'm 6'2" If I had to guess at an answer, I'd say a shorter table so that they could see what's going on.
