Something one needs to be cognizant of and I speak with relation to myself is NOT to overextend oneself with respect to your work/personal situation and obligations and EF.
I bit off more than I can chew recently and learned my lesson with a nights/weekend job not being conducive to weekend EF meets. As you know Dallcow, I said I was done to take care of my personal stuff, however, came to play you Sat and had a great time.
I stand ready to complete the 2 final DSMFL college games although even if I win them, I will not be in in a bowl because I committed. I would show up just for the camaraderie and FUN. I will do my best to complete the Carolina games as well, BECAUSE (1) I made a commitment and (2) I think I'm addicted to this darn game
Folks need to know what they are capable of doing and NOT doing as much as we would ALL like to just play. I have learned that the hard way.
I sure some others fall into this trap as well and of some just don't care...not for me to judge. I am also of the mindset you should never fall off the "grid" and communication with league mates is essential.
My 2 cents for what it's worth...