Originally Posted by Reginald Rutledge
on where you are at in life whether you sit on the fence or want to play in a league.
For me, I created the DFW Miniature Football League in '95. It was one of those grassroot things that you put your time, sweat, money, and sacrifice into and hope others will follow your lead and do likewise.
For someone who wanted it to be as close to reality as I did, you were willing to show people everything you knew about the game in hopes they would pass it on to others and grow the league.
You bring in "Road Warriors" with the intentions of spreading the roots nationally. Sometimes, you even pay their way to come here, because if you had it and they were having financial difficulties, you did that to make it work and so everyone could have fun.
What you think the hobby could be, many did not or do not envision what you thought it could be. Bad characters, you allow in your league, just because you wanted numbers, competition, and good times.
Some people really don't want to be bothered with the human elements and problems of others. You do so much for people and never feel the support in return. It sours your thoughts about being involved with others.
So it's like two ships passing in the night. One going one way and another going the other way. You loved years ago the enthusiasm of the young and energetic guys who kept you interested in the game. But as time went on, the enthusiasm turned into out-of-control egos where winning became the only priority. Having fun, good times, and just plain ole' good company was a thing of the past.
Money is always an issue for "Road Warriors". It should be but you would think, if guys advocated these people being in their league, they would open up their homes to letting them stay there (just for a weekend). Hospitality should always be utmost of importance.
I guess when I had one guy try to punch a hole through my kitchen wall because of a bad call, the writing was definitely on the wall.
I am not saying guys should not be in leagues. I think leagues, if put in the right perspective, can be one of the best social outlets there is. You get to know people, form friendships and bonds, and hold each other accountable as men.
But one must know what is entailed of him and know what he is expecting of that league before he becomes involved. I always regret guys who I brought into leagues (especially Road Warriors) and I walk away. I feel like I've let them down. But again, it is sometimes like two ships passing in the night. After 16 years of league play, you're just not interested.
Maybe, just maybe, if you start up a league again and learn from those mistakes, it may be much different but Father Time becomes the big factor.
Reg
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