Personaly, I think a jerk will stay a jerk no matter you'll do
No matter the hobby or sport, if I have to deal with this type of person, 1st problem : I stay calm, 2nd problem, I quit, simply as that, and never play with the guy again.
As it has been said, life is too short and precious to deal with that.
The thing I notice reading your topics and posts, is that the game is very competition oriented in your country. I rarely see (except for solitaire play) game reports of friendly games.
We come back to the definition of the hobby structure : "league" against "club", if you see what I mean.
In my opinion, any MF organization should have friendly games regularly during the season. Playing with friends, instead of playing against opponents. Fees only for the gaming structure needs. Refunds at the end of the season if the money has not been spent. That kind of things.
Once you put money on something, a lot of guys will think they deserve something, since they paid, and don't remember that playing MF with other passionate people is a chance. Believe me, I know what I'm talking about, it's so hard to find people involved in my aera.
In one word, hard rules and frontiers in competition playing, freedom and friendship in fridenly gaming, and no money (or the less possible) an no business in every case.
My 2 cents
