Definately, Quality Over Quantity.....
I don't think you should discriminate on who you let play in your
league,initially,unless you just know the person is a train-wreck
waiting to happen.You don't need this.Tell them no.Be honest
and tell them why,also....Anyone else,I say give them a chance.
If they blow it then it's time to go.Some may try to get back in
and this is when you weigh all the Pros' and Cons of why they
should or shouldn't be let back in and whatever it was that
got them kicked out in the first place.If it's No then it's No.
If that's discrimination,so be it.If you choose to give them
a second chance that's OK too,if they deserve it.Just don't
forget what got you and them to this point to start with.
I'm all for giving someone a chance,IF they deserve it.If they
don't,they don't.And there's usually a good reason(s) why.
One other thing.Don't go by "hear-say". Form your own opinions
on someone.Atleast give them that respect. I'm guilty of having done
this,only to find out the cat telling me/us all the BS was the trouble
maker.I'll leave it at that.......
SEMPER FI,
Chris Stacey
Hampton,VA
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