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Old 11-13-2007, 12:33 AM
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Originally Posted by MrMichigan View Post
I hate to talk bad about my wife. But I needed some people to talk to. Thank you guys. Here is what I feel you guys are right about.

I agree with what some of you are saying about making sure I get all my work at home done first, then go play EF.

With this said, I made sure I did all my work in the week and some on saturday. She did not say anything until I came home from my game on sunday.

I fill there is more to this story, than me just playing EF. I know she is busy with the holidays coming up. But I am doing what I can to help out.

I feel Trek1 is right about my wife. She needs to treat me with some respect. Also Trek1 is right about some women are hard to please. I always felt this way about my wife.

I guess this is one big reason why I decided to play EF with out her saying OK. I fill I need to do something for myself and not always trying to make sure she is happy.

Anyway, thank you guys for your input and support.

Sincerely,
Tony Johnson
Go Tampa Bay!!

I feel for ya Tony... My ex-wife was one of those who could never be pleased... (as the other poor bastards that have crossed her path have found out.. LOL!!)...

I don't feel like you were talking bad about your wife.. Just stating what was going on...

To be honest... I feel like she is a bit over the line complaining about you wanting to have a hobby like this... But by the same token.. this "EF is #1 and you can hit the road" talk is ridiculous.. EF or any other hobby should never come before your wife or girlfriend..

Tell her you will help her out as much as you can to open up the time you want and need to play EF.. Just talk about how you feel about it in a rational and non-confrontational tone... And hopefully she will understand that men need their time in the cave..

Best of luck to ya man....
I'll be saying a prayer for ya..
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