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Many guys become complacent in there ways, they are unable to think beyond there four walls. They don't think or care about the future of this hobby.
But when some one steps up with a better idea on something they get offended because they can't do that, or are not honest enough to say, " yea that is good ".
Many think because they spend a lot of money that they want to be acknowledged for how much money they spent on this hobby, how they play because they go to every tournament etc.......
They fail to understand that we love the game just as much, if not more than they do. We contribute to this hobby beyond spending money.
If what I create brings in one new person to this hobby then it all was worth it, and so far it's brought in 4 that I know of.
When you're able to do something that no one else can do or never thought of, they get jealous.
All men take take a lesson from women on this point. Women can compliment one another on every thing, but us men can't.
We need to be slow in criticism and fast in compliments.
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