Matt's statement is about as cut-and-dry and true as it can possibly be. If it is not fun then it is not worth the effort - a waste of your precious time.

The formula for keeping it fun is pretty simple. That is to refuse to play against anyone who can not keep the games and competitions in proper perspective. Playing against only those who can lose and win with grace and class are worth your time and effort. Leave the rest to tote whatever baggage they have on their own.

The fun is still there for me. I enjoy the gatherings and the fellowship more than any wins I accumulate. The losses take me between 20 seconds and 20 minutes to get over, depending on the situation. In any event, I enjoy the company.

-Mike Pratt