Question of the Day: Would you let a Guy Back in Who...

[Reginald Rutledge]

has burned you over and over again into your league?

I believe in forgiveness and I am a proud Christian. Sometimes, I don't always do whats right but I try to be an example as the leader of my family of living a righteous life is.

But I also know, guys tend to try to "run over" those who do not confront them with the same ferocity that they were attacked by. In this game, we've got all kinds of characters and no one is perfect. However, we all love to play the game. That's probably why you are reading this pose.

But in the past, I have played in leagues, offered tournaments, and done other things and have allowed guys back into things even after outlandish behavior on their part. Those guys would have a certain influence on some guys who would then cave in to them and try to get the group as a whole to "side" with them, only to see history repeat itself. They would weave their web where they think no one knows what's going on or is looking but forgive me, I am usually pretty wise to things of that nature. I am pretty analytical. I see things way before it come to past.

The problem most of the time, at least for me, is that what that guy brings to the table is misery and a cancerous effect. There are some who bring positives like service/work and stability. In either case, do you allow those guys back in.

My feelings are this is suppose to be fun for me. If I feel I am apart of a group that brings no good vibes to me, why am I wasting their time? I don't want to spoil it for anyone else with my bad feelings about the situation and if the group wants this person to be apart of it, who am I to stop the group? Time is so essential to the rest of my days on this earth that I have no interest in being uncomfortable in any kind of way.

What are your thoughts on this?

Reg